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Sharing Your Stories Online & Finding Boundaries for Creatives

sharing personal branding online

We’ve posted in the past about sharing yourself online and blending personal and professional on your online sharing space, but when we talk about our specialty: blending YOU into what you do—or creating a business around your personal brand, we often get questions about where to set your boundaries:

How do I bring more of me into my branding and work by sharing more than just the curated highlights of my life, but also have boundaries so I don’t end up Instagramming every aspect of my life? And what’s more: How will I know which details of my life are and are not interesting to my followers?

Kathleen here. I used to be an open book when it comes to sharing online – so it was easy for me to tell my clients and audience “You do you! Put it out there and don’t apologize for it!” … and then I became a mom. My boundaries shifted big time but I had no idea where the lines were drawn. Was I sharing too much? Not enough? Pre-baby I was totally cool fumbling through life in plain view of the whole world. But now? Not so much. Through this experience I developed compassion for creatives who were asking me where to draw the line when it comes to their own sharing boundaries. So this post isn’t just for you – it’s for me too. My boundaries have changed but I still very much have a story to tell. Here are five ways you can “keep it real” while also respecting your ever-evolving boundaries.

I always tell folks to start by using words they actually use in real life. For example, you say "horseshit!" a lot? Say it online too. You say "rad" or "word" in real life? Say it online. If you don't say things like "lovely" or "delightful" or "effing" then DON'T say those online. Make sense? For example, I never say “folks” in real life, but have been hearing other people say it a lot so I thought I’d try it on for size. It doesn’t feel entirely authentic so I was going to change it – but instead I decided to leave it in so I could prove this point.

When people come to know you for something it can be uncomfortable or even embarrassing to share something new with them. They’ve come to expect one thing from you and you’ve gotten used to delivering on that promise. So if something has changed … then literally acknowledge the change itself. For example, you might post something like "You already know me for my outfits. And you know I like to cook. But here's what I want to share with you about who I am today... " And then fill in the rest with your honest truth.

Another trick up my sleeve is that I'll often start a post by typing out "What I really want to say is..." and start typing. THEN after I'm finished I'll erase that first "What I really want to say is...". But what typing “what I really want to say” does for me is trigger my authentic self to shine. It just helps me get to the point.

We all have our stories. The embarrassing ones, the sweet ones, the hilarious observations ... start sharing the kinds of stories you would tell friends at a party (but with acquaintances) overhearing too.


boundaries for sharing online creative entrepreneurs

Sometimes the only way you can know what your boundaries are is to get right up to the edge of them – and sometimes even cross the line. (click to tweet)

Sometimes I'll post something and know I could've gone further. Other times I'll post something and a day later feel as if I went just a little too far. This is the part of sharing who you are that takes a little bit of courage, trust, and curiosity. The point is… testing your boundaries is sometimes the best way to figure out what your boundaries are. It’s not always easy and it might give you a vulnerability hangover from time-to-time but it’s a part of the process.

One tool I use, specifically when writing, is asking myself "Is that true?" – from the words I use to the way I describe an experience.

honesty in sharing online for creative entrepreneurs

Getting to the honest truth is what resonates authenticity. (click to tweet)

My writing is a constant test in getting more honest. Not in a "I'm making this up" or straight up lying ... but getting what I'm thinking and feeling to translate on the page can be tricky. I found that getting what I really want to say across is easiest when I ask myself "Is this true? How could I say it in a more honest way?" – it's a bit like mining gold. Not that I know what mining gold is like at all (see, there's that honest part!)

Now go write! Share!

If this was helpful for you, make sure you check out our Braid Method Branding ECourse. Not only does this course help you gain some clarity about what your offerings are and how to tell people to hire you, but it can also help you organize your ideas and your branding voice so that when it comes to sharing online, you have a better idea of what your audience wants to know versus what you should save just for you.

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content shapes what you do

You may think you need to get all your ducks in a row—a perfect business vision, business model, business brand, personal brand… all neatly lined up and packaged up, before you start sharing content with anyone else.

So you hesitate to launch until you know every single detail is perfectly in place (and every person who sees it will love it).

You shy away from telling people what you really do in conversations until you’ve proven you’re a success at it (and that means proving it to yourself first, which can be the most difficult person to please of all).

You circle around a blog post or an email you want to send for days, until you muster the courage to put something that’s a little more personal than professional out into the world.

Or vice versa, you backpedal from writing about your business dream versus the typical weekend highlights that your friends and family have come to expect from fun-loving, weekend-loving (but surely not business-loving!) you.

just say it

You’re waiting. You’re waiting for your business, or your dream, or your brand, to match what it is you want to say now. But they’ll never catch up with your head and heart. So just say it. (Tweet this)

Whatever the content is—you’re waiting to hit send, publish, or even say it out loud—the point is, you’re waiting. You’re waiting for your business or your dream or your brand to match what it is you want to say now. And here’s the thing—they’ll never catch up. Your head and heart and all it wants to say are always going to be two steps ahead of the business or brand or dream you’ve already been able to create. So just say it.

Say it if it’s not perfect, write it if it’s not 100% fully-formed, share it if it’s still just sharing the journey along the way. Because if those first rocket-fast years of working for ourselves taught us anything, it’s that your content shapes your what you do, not the other way around.

What we share... shapes what our business has become.

If we sound passionate here, it’s because when we started Braid we were saying all the things our past experiences had taught us were true, but we were also saying a lot of the things that we wanted our business to become. We said we were “for the creatives!” when half our clients were simply small businesses and the other half were the creative entrepreneurs. Today we’re 100% creative entrepreneurs. We used personal branding as just one aspect of the kind of branding we do. But we talked about personal branding in practically every post or email we wrote. Today we consider almost every branding project we do – personal branding.

The spark for this post, for the words we’re sharing with you now is our Braid ECourse this month, Shape Up Your Content: Tame Your Ideas and Tell People How To Buy You. If there was one revelation that’s come from this ecourse, now in it’s third year, it’s come from the “Braiders” who have taken the course and haven’t been shy to share their comments. They ask us tough questions as they carve their messages, because they take this course seriously. Because they get it. What they say about their business now is really what they are saying about their future vision – and themselves. It’s where they want to go next. What they want to be doing.

So yeah, this is an ecourse about sorting your ideas and writing content that says what you want it to say about your personal brand, about your business—but it’s also about shaping what you want that business to become.

What you’re saying about your business now, is really what you’re saying about your vision. It’s where you want to go next. (tweet this)

The next time you introduce yourself, instead of diminishing what you do, say what you do plus that dash of what you are just starting to to do but still don’t have completely figured out. So if you’re a designer who is really starting to transition into brand consulting. Say “I’m a designer, but my specialty is branding.” If you’re a lifestyle coach who is really wanting to focus in on eating issues or concerns, start writing most of your posts (be it your blog or simply your Instagram) about changing our relationship with food.

business and vision

To quote the work of Florence Scovel Shinn (you know it, but it’s an oldie and a goodie), “your word is your wand.” What you say, what you write, what you choose to talk about is what you put out into the world – and lookie there, it’s what comes right back at ya.

If you’re dealing with creative fear, need help with time management, or simply need a boost of inner-confidence when it comes to showing up and being seen you might like the DIY Coaching for Creatives email sessions. You can sign up anytime! It’s just $40 for 4 weeks of content delivered straight to your inbox – plus, it’s a great way to invest in yourself at the beginning of a new year.

Braid Method Branding for Creatives ECourse

The Braid Method Branding ECourse is for creative entrepreneurs who are ready to support themselves financially with their business, create a blog or consistent online presence, and finally turn the work they’re already doing into a digital product, package, or offering for dream customers. This branding ecourse comes with 7 learning modules in a 300+ page digital download, a workbook with 20+ branding exercises and scripts, a quarterly masterclass, and an exclusive Facebook group so you can connect with us and other students.


How to Write Your Business Tagline | Personal Branding Slogan

how to write a tagline for your business

Tara here. We all grew up with catchy slogans – “just do it,” “got milk?” or “a diamond is forever.” They’ve been etched in our brains because of how consistently they’ve been used – and all the ways and means these big-budget brands have impressed them upon us.

But even without big budgets, trending one-liners and themes are still impressing and influencing us and our peers in the realm of the creative entrepreneur, now more than ever – from hashtags that catch on like wildfire, to pinnable quotes that strike an irresistible chord.

A themeline may even start with you – a product you’re launching, a movement you’re championing. But those are ideas, products, events and rallying cries that come and go with the flow, they don’t describe what you do as a personal brand and a business.

Of course you should keep creating those ideas, those products, those launches and those themes in time with the seasons, in time with what’s happening in the world, and most importantly, in time with your own bursts of inspiration.

But! When it comes to that single line that describes what you do (that doesn’t change over time!) – you don’t need a catchy, clever, cute or even a razor-sharp cut-through-the-clutter slogan that’s going to make you popular, memorable or hirable. You need a tagline.

A tagline (I sometimes simply call it a descriptor line) should be a useful companion to your brand name and logo, that does a little of the explaining for you.

writing a tagline slogan for your business

A few weeks ago I wrote How To Decide On Your Business Name and promised a follow-up on how to write your tagline to go with it. So before you think of it as a hashtag or a pinnable quote, as a shoe box slogan or a one-liner delivered by Morgan Freeman at the end of an emotionally stirring commercial – think of your tagline in brand places like your website masthead, a sign-off to your newsletters or posts, or in your social media profile.

Think of your tagline as the biggest clue, in the smallest amount of words, into what you do and how people can buy or hire you.

A short and sweet tagline (or descriptor line) for your business should:
a. show what your business does in an instant; and/or 
b. round out what your business name alone isn’t telling people 

Creating A Say-What-You Mean Descriptor Line vs. a Catchy One:
Here are a few different fill-in-the-blank formulas you might try:

1. The “I Do This for Them” Version
Your Business Name (could be your name, of course) followed by:

  1. the service or product you provide in three words or less:
  2. who or what you do it for in three words or less:

For example:
Green Goddess
floral design for events

But what if she had a shop and did events? I’d do the one- two- three- punch:

2. The “Short-Short Laundry List” Version

  1. service one
  2. service two
  3. service three / but still cluing in who it’s for

For example:
Green Goddess
florist | design | special events

But what if her name was her name? But she loved the idea of a “green goddess,” perhaps that’s even her logo mark design?

3. The “Make Your Name Still Sound Like a Business” Version
In this case I might suggest a short descriptor line you use with your logo sometimes, but a “rallying cry” that feels like your personal motto that you pepper in when you have the space, or the right context to do so:

  1. service one
  2. service two
  3. rallying cry

For example:
Julia Hernandez
floral design & events
“for the green goddess in all of us!”

4. No matter which version you use, go back and pepper in Purpose & Personality
Okay, so these are feeling pretty straightforward. And very concise. They almost feel like a “duh” moment, like “of course that’s the description for what I do.” But where’s the creativity? Well, a little goes a long way. You don’t want to turn your breadcrumb into a full-on bagel! But here are some simple ways you might infuse a little more of “you” into what you do in a line as short as your tagline:

  1. add some “purpose” to one of your words
  2. add some “personality” to the other(s)

For example (and this is my favorite of all the “imaginary” Green Goddess combos):
Green Goddess
natural floral design for wildly gorgeous events

Note the “natural” descriptor. That’s stating some purpose. Perhaps she only uses local plants or more natural-feeling designs (no tight rose-only bouquets).

Note the “wildly gorgeous” that’s infusing some personality. Perhaps she’s a total stylista, completely influenced by fashion and design in all her floral designs.

Caution! Don’t use words you don’t really use. If our Green Goddess was a shy wallflower, vs. this loud and fabulous floral designer. Then you might tone down the flair, but keep the “natural” intent.

creative business tagline slogan

Having trouble writing this deceptively short and simple line? Or simply picking the one that “feels right?”

Now, I recognize that not all of you do work that’s as straightforward as floral design. Many of you do a hybrid of services, or are still in transition, trying to figure it all out and how it fits together. So, yes, even though your tagline shouldn’t change as much as your hashtags do, you should give yourself permission to evolve or update it every three to six months. We’ve updated ours (branding & business visioning for creative entrepreneurs) at least once or twice since we’ve launched. Just knowing it’s not totally set in stone can free up the writer’s block!

But if you’re still struggling, here are some tips: 

Give yourself wiggle room to warm up.

A great way to warm up is to give yourself a longer word count. See if you can sum up what you do, and who you do it for (with a dash of your personality, using your own words, because you are not a robot!) in a couple short paragraphs. Then whittle down from there.

Get methodical and categorize your words.

You can also try this method: listing single words in category columns. Pick a category for each column and write it at the top of the page, for example a.) the kind of service or product I provide, b.) my specialty, flair, unique approach or signature style, c.) who I create this service or product for. Then list different words that pop up within their column. Then narrow down to your favorites in each column. Start pairing them up with each other. This could end up being a three word descriptor line, or a single statement that merges the three ideas. 

Give yourself some context, and “try on” your tagline alongside your business name.

I also find it really helps to write or say your business name before you “try on” the tagline. So don’t just start listing the taglines that you’re deciding between in a row. Pair each one of them with your name first. Then read them out loud. Imagine them on your website masthead with your logo. Imagine them on your business card.

Or try starting an introduction using your favorite one. “Hi, I’m Tara and my business Braid Creative is _____ [ tagline here ] ____. What I mean by that is…” and there you go, the conversation has begun. And it just started with one line, that simply described what you do.

Braid Method Branding for Creatives ECourse

The Braid Method Branding ECourse is for creative entrepreneurs who are ready to support themselves financially with their business, create a blog or consistent online presence, and finally turn the work they’re already doing into a digital product, package, or offering for dream customers. This branding ecourse comes with 7 learning modules in a 300+ page digital download, a workbook with 20+ branding exercises and scripts, a quarterly masterclass, and an exclusive Facebook group so you can connect with us and other students.



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